A gentle longing for something lost or unattainable.

Example:

Looking at old photos and remembering better times.

Valence-Arousal Position

Valence:Mixed
Arousal:Low

Physiological Symptoms:

Cognitive

reflective demeanorquiet contemplation

Reflection Tip:

Appreciate the past while remaining open to new possibilities.

De-escalation Tip:

Channel your feelings into creative expression or reflection.

Self-Judgment Tip:

Recognize that wistfulness reflects emotional depth and appreciation for meaningful experiences.

Normalization Tip:

It's normal to feel wistful when recalling cherished moments or people.

Sign in to view your analytics

Get personalized insights into your emotional patterns

Your Analytics

Reflection Timeline

11/6/202512/5/2025

Total Reflections

24

Average Intensity

6.8

Date Range

11/6/2025 - 12/6/2025

Intensity Distribution

1-3
4-6
7-9
10

Most Common Triggers

Work stress8 (33.3%)
Social situations6 (25%)
Family interactions5 (20.8%)
Unexpected events3 (12.5%)
Physical discomfort2 (8.3%)

Mood Impact

Improved8 (33%)
Worsened4 (17%)
Neutral12 (50%)

Time Patterns

Morning
Afternoon
Evening

Common Body Sensations

Tightness in chest (12)
Increased heart rate (8)
Muscle tension (6)
Shallow breathing (4)

Recurring Thought Patterns

Feeling judged or criticized10 times
Comparing self to others8 times
Ruminating on past events6 times

Coping Strategies Used

Deep breathing
8 timesEffectiveness: 7.2/10
Taking a walk
6 timesEffectiveness: 6.8/10
Talking to someone
5 timesEffectiveness: 7.5/10
Journaling
4 timesEffectiveness: 6.5/10

Locations (3 unique)

Home
12 reflectionsAvg intensity: 6.5
Office
8 reflectionsAvg intensity: 7.2
Public spaces
4 reflectionsAvg intensity: 5.8

People Interactions (2 people)

Friend8 interactions
Colleague6 interactions

Weather Patterns

Sunny: 10
Cloudy: 8
Rainy: 6

Unlock Premium

Get unlimited access to advanced analytics, AI insights, and personalized emotional intelligence tools.

  • Unlimited reflections
  • Advanced analytics
  • AI-powered insights
  • Privacy-first design
View Pricing

Free tier includes 50 reflections

Affect Labeling Questions

A time or place in the past.
A person who is no longer present.
An opportunity you wish you had taken.
It makes me appreciate the past.
It fills me with a gentle longing.
It makes me reflect on missed opportunities.
A relaxed posture.
Soft sighs or distant gazes.
A bittersweet heaviness in the chest.

Coping Strategies

Sacred Space Creation

Designing personal areas dedicated to reflection or relaxation

Arousal
Valence

Light Therapy

Using light exposure to regulate mood, particularly for conditions like seasonal affective disorder (SAD)

Arousal
Valence

Sound Therapy

Using music, nature sounds, or binaural beats to create a calming auditory atmosphere

Arousal
Valence

Biophilic Design

Integrating natural elements into living or workspaces to foster connection with nature

Arousal
Valence

Mindful Movement

Engaging in gentle, intentional exercises such as yoga or Tai Chi in a calming environment

Arousal
Valence

Physical Relaxation

Practicing techniques like progressive muscle relaxation (PMR) or guided imagery

Arousal
Valence

Community Rituals

Participating in shared cultural or spiritual practices that foster collective meaning

Arousal
Valence

Collective Movement

Engaging in group physical activities or movement practices

Arousal
Valence

Mentorship

Engaging in guidance relationships for support and growth

Arousal
Valence

Accountability Partnerships

Creating structured relationships for mutual goal support

Arousal
Valence

Behavioral Activation

Engaging in physical activity, hobbies, or social interaction to interrupt rumination cycles

Arousal
Valence

Scheduled Rumination Time

Allocating specific time for processing worries and deferring rumination outside that time

Arousal
Valence

Seeking Social Support

Actively reaching out to others for help, guidance, or emotional support

Arousal
Valence

Physical Activity

Engaging in exercise or movement to manage stress

Arousal
Valence

Substance Use

Using substances to numb or escape emotional discomfort

Arousal
Valence

Aggression

Expressing stress through hostile or aggressive behavior

Arousal
Valence

Fight Response

Confronting challenges with assertiveness or aggression

Arousal
Valence

Flight Response

Avoiding or escaping perceived danger

Arousal
Valence

Fawn Response

People-pleasing or accommodating to avoid conflict

Arousal
Valence

Exercise

Structured physical activity for stress relief

Arousal
Valence

Shaking

Voluntary tremoring or shaking movements

Arousal
Valence

Vocal Release

Using voice for emotional and physical release

Arousal
Valence

Reiki

Japanese practice channeling energy through hands for relaxation and healing

Arousal
Valence

Chakra Balancing

Aligning the body's energy centers for emotional and physical well-being

Arousal
Valence

Shamanic Journeying

Using drumming or visualization to connect with spiritual realms

Arousal
Valence

Trauma-Informed Yoga

Gentle yoga designed for processing and releasing trauma

Arousal
Valence

Ancestral Rituals

Honoring ancestors for healing and cultural continuity

Arousal
Valence

Virtual Reality Therapy

Immersive environments for exposure and relaxation

Arousal
Valence

Neurofeedback

Monitoring brain activity for self-regulation

Arousal
Valence

Life Mapping

Creating visual or written maps of life events

Arousal
Valence