A deep sorrow caused by a significant loss, often involving a journey through various emotional stages.

Example:

Losing a loved one and navigating feelings of sorrow, regret, and longing.

Valence-Arousal Position

Valence:Negative
Arousal:Moderate

Physiological Symptoms:

Musculoskeletal

heaviness in the body

Cardio & Respiratory

heartache

Cognitive

sense of defeat

Reflection Tip:

Acknowledge your feelings as a natural response to loss, and give yourself the grace to process them over time.

De-escalation Tip:

Allow moments of expression, such as journaling or talking to someone, and find constructive ways to honor what was lost.

Self-Judgment Tip:

Grief signifies the depth of your connection to what was lost. Recognize it as a profound but human process.

Normalization Tip:

Grief follows a personal timeline. Studies show it can involve stages such as denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.

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Reflection Timeline

11/6/202512/5/2025

Total Reflections

24

Average Intensity

6.8

Date Range

11/6/2025 - 12/6/2025

Intensity Distribution

1-3
4-6
7-9
10

Most Common Triggers

Work stress8 (33.3%)
Social situations6 (25%)
Family interactions5 (20.8%)
Unexpected events3 (12.5%)
Physical discomfort2 (8.3%)

Mood Impact

Improved8 (33%)
Worsened4 (17%)
Neutral12 (50%)

Time Patterns

Morning
Afternoon
Evening

Common Body Sensations

Tightness in chest (12)
Increased heart rate (8)
Muscle tension (6)
Shallow breathing (4)

Recurring Thought Patterns

Feeling judged or criticized10 times
Comparing self to others8 times
Ruminating on past events6 times

Coping Strategies Used

Deep breathing
8 timesEffectiveness: 7.2/10
Taking a walk
6 timesEffectiveness: 6.8/10
Talking to someone
5 timesEffectiveness: 7.5/10
Journaling
4 timesEffectiveness: 6.5/10

Locations (3 unique)

Home
12 reflectionsAvg intensity: 6.5
Office
8 reflectionsAvg intensity: 7.2
Public spaces
4 reflectionsAvg intensity: 5.8

People Interactions (2 people)

Friend8 interactions
Colleague6 interactions

Weather Patterns

Sunny: 10
Cloudy: 8
Rainy: 6

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Affect Labeling Questions

A deep yearning for what is lost.
Moments of overwhelming sorrow.
A gradual sense of coming to terms with the loss.
Tightness in the chest and tearfulness.
A sense of emptiness or longing.
A calm but bittersweet feeling.

Coping Strategies

Sound Therapy

Using music, nature sounds, or binaural beats to create a calming auditory atmosphere

Arousal
Valence

Color Therapy

Incorporating specific colors into your environment to evoke desired emotional states

Arousal
Valence

Mindful Movement

Engaging in gentle, intentional exercises such as yoga or Tai Chi in a calming environment

Arousal
Valence

Boundary Setting

Establishing clear physical and emotional limits to protect energy and well-being

Arousal
Valence

Seeking Social Support

Actively reaching out to others for help, guidance, or emotional support

Arousal
Valence

Substance Use

Using substances to numb or escape emotional discomfort

Arousal
Valence

Emotional Eating

Using food to cope with emotional distress

Arousal
Valence

Aggression

Expressing stress through hostile or aggressive behavior

Arousal
Valence

Vocal Release

Using voice for emotional and physical release

Arousal
Valence

Reiki

Japanese practice channeling energy through hands for relaxation and healing

Arousal
Valence

Chakra Balancing

Aligning the body's energy centers for emotional and physical well-being

Arousal
Valence

Ayurvedic Practices

Ancient Indian system focusing on balance through diet and lifestyle

Arousal
Valence

Family Constellations

Exploring family dynamics through group exercises

Arousal
Valence

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Nonverbal signals commonly associated with this emotion

Temporal States

Emotional patterns and states over time associated with this emotion