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Self-Loathing

SadnessNegativeLow

An intense sense of self-criticism or hatred directed inward.

Example:

Feeling worthless after making a mistake at work.

Valence-Arousal Position

Valence:Negative
Arousal:Low

Physiological Symptoms:

Cognitive

self-criticism

Reflection Tip:

Challenge negative self-talk and replace it with self-compassion.

De-escalation Tip:

Talk to someone who can provide perspective and reassurance.

Self-Judgment Tip:

Self-loathing often stems from unrealistic standards. Treat yourself with the kindness you'd show others.

Normalization Tip:

Self-loathing can arise in moments of low self-esteem but doesn't define who you are.

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Reflection Timeline

11/6/202512/5/2025

Total Reflections

24

Average Intensity

6.8

Date Range

11/6/2025 - 12/6/2025

Intensity Distribution

1-3
4-6
7-9
10

Most Common Triggers

Work stress8 (33.3%)
Social situations6 (25%)
Family interactions5 (20.8%)
Unexpected events3 (12.5%)
Physical discomfort2 (8.3%)

Mood Impact

Improved8 (33%)
Worsened4 (17%)
Neutral12 (50%)

Time Patterns

Morning
Afternoon
Evening

Common Body Sensations

Tightness in chest (12)
Increased heart rate (8)
Muscle tension (6)
Shallow breathing (4)

Recurring Thought Patterns

Feeling judged or criticized10 times
Comparing self to others8 times
Ruminating on past events6 times

Coping Strategies Used

Deep breathing
8 timesEffectiveness: 7.2/10
Taking a walk
6 timesEffectiveness: 6.8/10
Talking to someone
5 timesEffectiveness: 7.5/10
Journaling
4 timesEffectiveness: 6.5/10

Locations (3 unique)

Home
12 reflectionsAvg intensity: 6.5
Office
8 reflectionsAvg intensity: 7.2
Public spaces
4 reflectionsAvg intensity: 5.8

People Interactions (2 people)

Friend8 interactions
Colleague6 interactions

Weather Patterns

Sunny: 10
Cloudy: 8
Rainy: 6

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Affect Labeling Questions

Believing I'm not good enough.
Feeling like I've let others down.

Coping Strategies

Sacred Space Creation

Designing personal areas dedicated to reflection or relaxation

Arousal
Valence

Sound Therapy

Using music, nature sounds, or binaural beats to create a calming auditory atmosphere

Arousal
Valence

Biophilic Design

Integrating natural elements into living or workspaces to foster connection with nature

Arousal
Valence

Mindful Movement

Engaging in gentle, intentional exercises such as yoga or Tai Chi in a calming environment

Arousal
Valence

Physical Relaxation

Practicing techniques like progressive muscle relaxation (PMR) or guided imagery

Arousal
Valence

Community Rituals

Participating in shared cultural or spiritual practices that foster collective meaning

Arousal
Valence

Collective Movement

Engaging in group physical activities or movement practices

Arousal
Valence

Externalize the Problem

Viewing challenges as separate from the self

Arousal
Valence

Create Victory Log

Document instances of successful transitions and resilience

Arousal
Valence

Behavioral Activation

Engaging in physical activity, hobbies, or social interaction to interrupt rumination cycles

Arousal
Valence

Self-Compassion Practice

Using self-compassion exercises to counter self-criticism and soothe negative experiences

Arousal
Valence

Seeking Social Support

Actively reaching out to others for help, guidance, or emotional support

Arousal
Valence

Physical Activity

Engaging in exercise or movement to manage stress

Arousal
Valence

Substance Use

Using substances to numb or escape emotional discomfort

Arousal
Valence

Aggression

Expressing stress through hostile or aggressive behavior

Arousal
Valence

Fight Response

Confronting challenges with assertiveness or aggression

Arousal
Valence

Flight Response

Avoiding or escaping perceived danger

Arousal
Valence

Fawn Response

People-pleasing or accommodating to avoid conflict

Arousal
Valence

Autogenic Training

Self-produced sensations of warmth and heaviness

Arousal
Valence

Shaking

Voluntary tremoring or shaking movements

Arousal
Valence

Shamanic Journeying

Using drumming or visualization to connect with spiritual realms

Arousal
Valence

Life Mapping

Creating visual or written maps of life events

Arousal
Valence

Related Emotions

Parent emotion

Sibling emotions

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