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Pena Ajena

FearNegativeModerate

Vicarious embarrassment - feeling embarrassed FOR someone else when they do something cringeworthy.

Example:

Cringing when someone makes a fool of themselves in public, even if they're a stranger.

Valence-Arousal Position

Valence:Negative
Arousal:Moderate

Physiological Symptoms:

Musculoskeletal

physical cringe

Reflection Tip:

This shows your social awareness - you're reading social norms and violations.

De-escalation Tip:

Their embarrassment isn't yours to carry - you can witness without absorbing.

Self-Judgment Tip:

High empathy can mean feeling others' social pain - set boundaries.

Normalization Tip:

Called 'fremdschämen' in German - it's universal, especially in social media age.

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Reflection Timeline

11/6/202512/5/2025

Total Reflections

24

Average Intensity

6.8

Date Range

11/6/2025 - 12/6/2025

Intensity Distribution

1-3
4-6
7-9
10

Most Common Triggers

Work stress8 (33.3%)
Social situations6 (25%)
Family interactions5 (20.8%)
Unexpected events3 (12.5%)
Physical discomfort2 (8.3%)

Mood Impact

Improved8 (33%)
Worsened4 (17%)
Neutral12 (50%)

Time Patterns

Morning
Afternoon
Evening

Common Body Sensations

Tightness in chest (12)
Increased heart rate (8)
Muscle tension (6)
Shallow breathing (4)

Recurring Thought Patterns

Feeling judged or criticized10 times
Comparing self to others8 times
Ruminating on past events6 times

Coping Strategies Used

Deep breathing
8 timesEffectiveness: 7.2/10
Taking a walk
6 timesEffectiveness: 6.8/10
Talking to someone
5 timesEffectiveness: 7.5/10
Journaling
4 timesEffectiveness: 6.5/10

Locations (3 unique)

Home
12 reflectionsAvg intensity: 6.5
Office
8 reflectionsAvg intensity: 7.2
Public spaces
4 reflectionsAvg intensity: 5.8

People Interactions (2 people)

Friend8 interactions
Colleague6 interactions

Weather Patterns

Sunny: 10
Cloudy: 8
Rainy: 6

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